Jesus the Reconciler Part 3 – by Justin Renton

The Bible teaches that conflict begins in the human heart, where jealousy, envy and selfish desires can fuel fights and quarrels. Rather than blaming others, we must first examine our own hearts and acknowledge our part.

Jesus calls us to take the initiative in reconciliation, address conflict privately, apologise when necessary and pursue peace. Wisdom also teaches us to consider timing, avoid gossip, allow space when needed and overlook minor offences.

We should not take up offences that do not belong to us or try to control another person’s response. Our responsibility is to do our part, keep our hearts open and bless rather than avenge. Ultimately, reconciliation requires humility, patience, mercy and a willingness to love even when others do not respond as we hope.

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